I experienced that once again in my life. It takes real courage to listen to our own hearts - when we don't - we settle for something we don't love or we don't love to do. When we go by the set rules, when we search the internet for the collective wisdom about something - we go into self-denial mode that eventually kills the truth within ourselves. Judging somebody by the templates and judging a book by looking at it's cover are almost equal - it goes wrong almost every time. Why so happens? Because we pretend that we rule our lives but in reality we do not - at least it's true for most of us. It takes a lot of courages to expose our weaknesses - and people take it as real weakness but I call it the courage. Going out there and making ourselves vulnerable is so much so important - important to test the world out to see what it has to offer for us; and it can not be so sweet all the time, it will not comfort us always but it can throw us into the whirlwinds or on the rock - we should be fine with accepting these with the undying spirit of life.